Erotic Order

Elevating Sex Work to its Rightful Place

Whether you say it

out loud or not…

  • You know there’s more to sex than what you’ve been told and perhaps you’ve searched aimlessly for it, without reward.

  • You’ve touched the sacred in sexuality only to feel disoriented without context of what the fuck just happened.

  • You’ve been crippled by shame of the call of your path to the point where you don’t feel safe to express yourself anymore.

  • You’ve had your boundaries crossed so many times that you can’t trust clients enough to fully surrender to ecstasy anymore.

  • You’re tired of trying to prove something in work with clients and want to experience containers that are mutually wild and fulfilling.

Been there. Done that.

Got the fucking t-shirt.

Transform your relationship

with the path itself…

  • Cultivate coherency so that you live a life that nourishes you.

  • Align eroticism with all of creation so you end battling, and start flowing, with clients.

  • Find ecstatic in the mundane so that pleasure becomes your life blood.

  • Learn how trauma stores itself in the body and recover meaning from life's hardships so you can free your clients (and yourself).

  • Surrender to the soul aligning power of erotic energy so that you become a place where destiny can find you.

  • Heal from fractures of self betrayal so you can become a trustworthy companion for yourself.

"What you have designed and created speaks to the quality of being and depth of what you are bringing to this particular calling. It's long been something that I've needed to have in my back pocket - a Priestess who I trust to work in these realms."

— Jumana Sophia, Personal Mentor to Priestess Francesca

Founder HER Mystery School

More than a course…

a Mystery School

A deepening into the Mystery of YOU

and your authentic erotic expression.

Each month we explore a new terrain following the same rhythmic flow...

  • Remember that which we have forgotten about the truth of our erotic energy

  • Tend to the ongoing cultivation of your erotic energy in service to your whole life

  • Reclaim Exchange in divine lovership and embody archetypes we have been orphaned from

  • Integrate these sensibilities with tangible "everyday life" practices and frameworks

  • Explore Ritualistic BDSM/Kink expressions to reveal truths that previously remained unconscious

  • Hold and Be Held in Sacred Witnessing of your process through vulnerably sharing and empathetic listening on 1:1 group coaching calls.

Cum inside

Six terrains of holy erotic expression

Homecoming

The roots lead to the fruits

  • Sovereign authority and rooted self knowing

  • Intuitive vetting and boundaries that nourish you.

  • Virginal Lover

  • Finding Safety in your Body

    Decompartmentalizing the Erotic

    Keeping the Pilot Light On

    Boundary Mapping & Offering Boundaries Lovingly

  • Anal Breath & Play, Chastity Play, Service Submission, Stone Top.

Communion

Re-wild your soul’s expression

  • Essential nature - what you’re actually made of

  • Elemental Communion - what you’re actually meeting in another

  • Wild Lover

  • Erotic Food & Sensual Eating

    Inner Primal

    Talk about Desires & Processing Disappointment

  • Pegging, Soaking, Gender Bending (Sissification & Forced Feminizing), Public Play

Paradise

Pleasure as lifeblood

  • True Fruition & Bloom

  • Wild, Untamed, Beauty

  • Gardens of Paradise

  • Unlearn “Tantra”

    Hottest Sexual Movies

    Pleasure Stretching & Embodied Porn Watching

    Unlearn Toxic Monogamy

    Group Sex

  • Orgasm Control (Denial, Edged, Forced)

    Fisting

    Slut Training

Descent

Forge meaning from life’s hardships

  • The Gifts of the Underworld

  • To your initiations and soul forging

  • Shadow Lover

  • Trigger Mapping & De-Escalation

    Finding Neutral

    Visiting the Inner Child

    Successful Relationship Repair

  • Sacred Pain (Impact, Electro, etc.), Breath Play, Fear Play, Degradation, Bondage, Rape Play, CGL, Vor.

Alchemy

Align with destiny and become a manifestation of your soul’s purpose

  • Brilliant choice as the living crucible

  • Your Sacred Fire & Rage

  • Magical Lover

  • Touching for your Pleasure

    Creating an Energy Circuit

    3 Dimensions of Sex: Role Play, Trance, & Partner Engagement

  • Fetishes, Body Modification, Fluids (Watersports, Toilet Play, Showers, Flushing), Role Play

Oracle

Companion yourself as you live the mystery

  • Oracular Presence

  • Intimacy of Knowing

  • Noble Lover

  • Intimacy of Knowing

    Claiming your Body

    Resiliency Basket

  • Spirit Lovers, Silence, God as Dominant, Rhythmic Play, Erotic Hypnosis, Dialysis of Desire, Shapeshifting (role play), Objectification, Voyeurism

How it breaks down.

6 Month Journey

33+ Teachings & Erotic Embodiment Meditations

33+ Integration Practices & Frameworks

33+ BDSM/Kink Wisdom Keys & Practical Teachings

12 1:1 Group Coaching Calls (2x/month)

Private In-App Community Forum

Early Bird Access to Group Retreats and Special Events

4 Seasonal Containers Available (see FAQ)

Energy Exchange

Tiered, class-equitable,

pay-what-supports-you pricing.

The School of Erotic Mysteries will never be gentrified.

Pricing doesn't have to be a weapon of classism: it, like the erotic, can and should be a joyful exchange that creates stronger communities. 

this model is inspired by my teacher Jumana Sophia.

It starts here at the beginning.

Enter into this space with a conscious, intentional and value-aligned culture of payment.

Please read the following criteria and determine which price is appropriate for you.

Do the right thing. For the good of all. In harm to none.

Gifter

$2,222

If you…

  • have access to financial security, own property, or have personal savings;

  • are able to pay for "wants" and spend little time worrying about securing necessities in your life;

  • have economic privilege and power in our community

…this price is for you.

By choosing this price, you are “paying it forward” and contributing to a more equitable world by supporting access for those with less.

Sustainer

$1,666

If you…

  • are paying off debt or working to build savings, but you also have access to steady income.

  • do NOT spend most of your time thinking about meeting basic needs such as food, shelter, medical care, child care, etc.

…this price is for you.

Making this investment might mean you might have to cut back on some discretionary spending in your life, but the sacrifice is short-term, and will not harm you in the long term.

Contributor

$999

If you…

  • have access to basic needs such as food, housing, and childcare, though sometimes it may feel difficult.

…this price is for you.

You are able to put away money each month to save up to be able to pay for the program, but the middle tier price would mean that you have to save for longer than 12 months.

Walk the Path

Next Cohort: Summer Solstice 2024 (May)

Rolling Application opens January 2024

What People Are Saying

“Francesca's spiritual views of the physical realm opened my eyes to what was possible. This work is incredibly healing & I've seen the teachings pay dividends in all aspects of my life. This work is so important -I'm so grateful.”

— Geoffrey, he/him, 20s

“Francesca opened the door to a new journey we never knew we wanted. She guided us through every turn with knowledge, passion, and warmth as we explored this vulnerable space. She is the standard.”

— Zach & Faye, hetero duo, 30s

“I spent over $10K working with a coach and got nowhere. What you've shared with me in the space of 1 discussion was everything I felt I've ever needed to hear. I literally hang on every word you say. Thank you sister, deep deep deep bow to you.”

— Erica, she/her, 40s

Anchored in equity,

with space for nuance.

Priestess Francesca has worked with humans of all genders, races, sexual orientations, religious backgrounds, and marginalization types.

The School of Erotic Mysteries brings nuanced considerations and inclusivity to all containers as we anchor in eternal Truths.

There is space for all of it.

You are welcome.

Equity Scholarships

For those for whom even the lowest tier price is truly prohibitive, but who demonstrate the qualities necessary to be a great fit for The School of Erotic Mysteries.

Those who are traditionally marginalized from the mainstream spiritual communities, that is: coaches who are Black, Indigenous, People of Color, LGBTQIA+, Survival SWers, disabled, practicing in countries with an unfavorable exchange rate, and/or in a language other than English, are especially encouraged to apply.

This is our way of investing in a world where every human gets to use their erotic medicine to benefit the world, so that we can de-couple sexual healing from the effects of financial inequity. 

Application Coming Soon <3

What People Are Saying

“Sometimes when Francesca speaks, I think she's coo-coo bananas. And then, I have a moment when I realize she was right. She paves her own way - with cool vibes, sexy outfits, and extreme grace for those who have not caught up to her yet.”

— Harper, she/her, 30s

“I needed to break the barrier of shame of feeling like a burden. Fact is, I can't imagine a life without you in it. You've saved my life multiple times and improved it in ways only a True Warrior of God can.”

— David, he/they, 30s

“Francesca possesses magic and knows how to wield it. Sexy, powerful, contagious magic.”

— Zach, he/him, 30s

A love letter

Dear Beloved

You’ve been robbed.

And I know it hurts.

The sexual narrative has been hijacked.

I want to show you the Truth.

come, walk the deep path

Let’s find out the hidden truths that lay at the depths of YOUR erotic medicine.

Let’s play into growth

and be transformed.

Beloved, we don’t need to suffer into growth — we get to play into growth.

Let’s align with destiny and watch what unfolds

I pray you choose to become the human you were created to be.

I’ll see you in the depths.

Baci xx

priestess francesca