THE INVESTMENT

Economic Sovereignty &
Self-Selection

I believe that relational literacy is a survival skill and a human right, not a luxury good ++ there is a real cost to building something this structured.

So, we do this the way a functional civilization does:
We use a Sliding Scale.

You know your current reality.
You know your resources.
Choose accordingly.

CHOOSE YOUR SEAT


Tier 1: The True Cost

The True Cost: $1,997
$0.00

You have financial security and economic power.
This is the actual cost of the training. If you own property, maintain personal savings, or have the disposable income to pay for "wants" without stressing over basic necessities, this is your seat. You possess economic privilege in this community. Stand in your capacity and anchor the space.


Tier 2: Middle Ground

The Middle Ground: $997
$0.00

You are stable, but building.
You have a steady income and your basic needs (food, shelter, medical care) are secure, but paying the true cost would create genuine hardship. You are likely paying down debt or moving away from paycheck-to-paycheck living.


Tier 3: Access Rate

The Access Rate: $497
$497.00

You are navigating deep economic friction.
This tier exists because your current economic reality should not lock you out of relational training. If you are struggling to secure basic needs, living strictly paycheck-to-paycheck, or carrying crippling debt, this seat is yours. Your investment at this level is respected and honored exactly the same as the highest tier.

"I've gained real-world skills as well as deeply transformational permission to honor my own wisdom. She keeps it real! The wisdom Francesca offers is so relevant and liberating."

Justine

"Profound knowledge and wisdom in the relational field — sassy, fun, fierce, and deeply rooted. Her wisdom around the repair process is a necessity."

Aoise

"It is a joy to learn from her wisdom... it has without exaggeration made me a better human being. More worldly, loving, self-accepting, and definitely hotter. She teaches you how to handle the tailspin and the power move."

Winston

Questions you might have…

meet your guide
Priestess Francesca

“people are like tea bags, you don’t really know how they taste until they’re in hot water” - me

For years, I lived a double life in New York City: designing HVAC systems for skyscrapers by day and working in high-protocol BDSM dynamics by night. Steel, pressure, infrastructure in one world. Power, desire, and psychological intensity in the other.

Both taught me the same thing: systems fail when the load exceeds capacity.

For nearly 20 years, I’ve steeped myself inside the alternative lifestyle scene (BDSM, kink, non-monogamy) not as “just a phase” or as an interesting adventure to try… but as someone who can’t not be this.

The wisdom inside Become a Relationship Badass was forged in real dynamics, real negotiations, real rupture, and real devotion to doing better.

This body of work is rooted in entrainments as a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, ordained Priestess, certified dominatrix ready to work skillfully with the body, with archetype, and with altered states of intimacy. The mystic and the mechanic live in the same system.

I’ve been featured in Cosmopolitan, Gothamist, Health Magazine, and on top 1% podcasts worldwide. I’ve spoken at universities including Salve Regina and Sarah Lawrence, and at festivals such as Envision, Dom Con, and Toronto Tantra Festival.

But credentials aren’t what make this work different.

What makes it rare is my ability to hold intensity without flinching.
To dissect power without moralizing it.
To sit inside relational rupture and see the architecture underneath it.

Students often say, “I’ve never heard it explained like this.”
Or, “I learned more in an hour with her than I have in years on my own.”

I’m def not a savior. I’m just a technician… A technician on a mission to build humans who can stay anchored in love when things get intense.

Because intimacy is not a side project IMO.
It’s critical infrastructure for our collective future.